Takeaway: The BDSM community is not a black leather dreamland, but for those who come into it with open hearts and minds, it can be much more than a place for sex. So how do you go from here, where you are, to there, where all those kinky people are? In other words, how do you actually join the BDSM community? One of the biggest hurdles many people face when they begin their search for their place in the kink scene is letting go of the what they think the community is.
I have been divorced for over a year after twenty one years with one man. Now, here I am at 43 and alone for the first time in my adult life. It had hurt when he told me that he was seeing a younger woman and wanted to be with her. It hurt even more when I happened to see the two of them together. I was walking past a local bar and saw the two of them having drinks, Read On. As we approached the small, nondescript building standing among other nondescript buildings in a nondescript neighborhood, thoughts raced through my head.
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